On December 1st, legislator Gao Jiayu held a press conference, expressing his apology to the public for causing social disturbances as a victim of domestic violence for Lin Bingshu's coercion and coercion. However, Gao Jiayu's role as a victim in this story script, why does he apologize and express guilt? As far as the "apology of the victim" is concerned, there seems to be something unusual.
Gao Jiayu's "acknowledgement of popular database victimization" and the image of a mouthpiece for the people that he needs to create as a representative of public opinion make the victim unable to speak out and save himself. multiple predicaments. Gao Jiayu said at his press conference: "Because I thought it was a very ugly thing for the first time", "I really feel that I don't know people, I'm really sorry, I'm really stupid" We can't It's an ugly thing to deny this, but Gao Jiayu is not stupid, let alone apologize.
This article attempts to clarify the intertwined dilemmas behind the apology from the interpretive viewpoints of existentialism and feminism. Self-deception: Gao Jiayu's apology and shame are intertwined with multiple levels of emotions The content of Gao Jiayu's speech at the press conference is basically a series of apologies, which can be roughly divided into external and internal responses. The former is for image management as a political figure, while the latter is for coping strategies in the face of violence in intimate relationships as a woman. However, does having power mean that you should not face coercion? As a woman, knowing someone unknown is not necessarily an important reason for apology.

